(Closed) Addressing STDs

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
7121 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@skipanther:  I only addressed the STDs to the Mr. X and save the “and guest” for the invites.

Are you doing two envelopes for your invites? If so then you would put Mr. X on the outside one and Mr. X and Guest on the inner envelope. If you are only doing one envelope for the invites I would just write Mr. X on the envelope and make it clear on the RSVP card that he is invited with a guest.

Post # 4
882 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You are doing it correct. I just answered a

Question like this yesterday, so I’m going to cut and paste my answer and rationale below:


But for a non-married couple, you only adress it to the person in the couple you are inviting. SOs or guests’ names do not go on the STD. 

For example-if you’re friends with Kim Kardashian and you’re inviting her and Kanye-you’d only address the STD to Kim-you’re telling her to save the date for your wedding…you put Kanye’s name only the inner envelope of the invite. The rational behind this is that if Kim and Kanye broke up before you send the invite…you aren’t obligated to invite Kanye too. 🙂

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