(Closed) Adressing…and guest…?

posted 9 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I would say no and guest on the STD, you can wait until the invite.  


We sent serious couples one std with both names on it, but I’m not sure if that is correct.   

Post # 4
1896 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009 - St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House

For couples, we just sent one STD — and will do the same with invites.  For plus-ones, I think you can wait to add "and guest" (but go for the name whenever possible) until you send out the invitations.

Post # 5
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

we did the same thing.  for Save-The-Date Cards we sent to the person invited (or Mr and Mrs if they were married) and added "and guest" on the invitation envelopes.

Post # 6
647 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I agree with the Bees, wait until the invite to do the plus one.  My fiance’s friends (he’s a few years older than me, so all of his friends are getting married while mine are ring shopping) send him save the dates with both his name and my name on there.  A couple of them have done that–even the friends of his from out of town I’ve only met once or twice–and it makes me feel acknowledged, so I think it works nicely.  Not that it’s all about me feeling acknowledged, but I think it’s very thoughtful of them.

Post # 7
883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

We did put "and guest" on our Save-The-Date Cards.  Its not an Emily Post must – but the STD is really for the out of towners and we felt they needed to know that they could bring a guest when they started looking at flights etc.

Post # 8
409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I agree wait until the actual invitation.  I’m not putting them on the STD’s. 

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