Advice!

posted 10 months ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 31
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Helper bee

vgrimes93 :  He doesn’t have any reason to be angry with you–she took what you said and twisted it to the point of lying. You said she, somewhat, has a history of this. 

Personally, I wouldn’t be able to let this go & not talk with her if she made such a malicious accusation against my fiance to my MOTHER and upset her like that. Not sure if it’s the high road or the low road to talk to her, but at this stage in the game, I know I wouldn’t care. She’d be getting more than an earful from me.

Post # 34
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Helper bee

vgrimes93 :  Good she did the hard part for you by blocking herself from everyone. Now enjoy the rest of your wedding peeps and look toward the future. Good luck!

Post # 36
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

vgrimes93 :  At least you see her true colors now. Good luck!

Post # 37
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Bumble bee

Now you are free of her you can forge ahead with out that negative energy and drama in your life.

 

 

 

Post # 38
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2021 - British Columbia, Canada

jacksspade :  Right?! ALLLLL the foods!

OP, I’m sorry that this is happening to you. There’s not much that parallels the feelings of betrayal from a close friend, especially during such an exciting time in your life. If I were in your shoes, I’d be going no contact with her rather than let her negativity spread any further. She sounds like she needs counselling to deal with all that’s going on in her life that is causing her to act this way towards you, but that doesn’t mean you should feel obligated to be her therapist.

Post # 39
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Helper bee

vgrimes93 :  (eek a little late here) but I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I guess the silver lining is that this didn’t continue through your wedding and you start the healing process of losing a friend now. Hugs and congrats on your upcoming nuptials!

Post # 40
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252 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2020 - City, State

Wow this sucks. I’m glad it seems to be over though, and better you know all this now than it come out at some even less convenient time. 

About telling your fiancé… I think you should. He probably will get mad because he respects you and cares about you and this woman betrayed you terribly, but the alternative is you don’t share this heartbreaking experience with the person closest to you and he never knows why she’s suddenly not only not your moh but not even in your life. To me it just seems like telling him is the honest thing to do.

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