(Closed) Advice for brides with few family members

posted 6 years ago in Intercultural
Post # 3
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224 posts
Helper bee

Oh girl I sympathise with you here!! In my family there is a grand total of…. 6. Including me. My SO is from two HUGE families. One is Sicilian (so massive) and the other is just very big and very, very close.

I’ll probably only have 25 or so people at our wedding, and he’s said he’ll cut the numbers down to 60 or so and have ‘immediate family – aunties, uncles and cousins’ to the ceremony and breakfast, and invite others to the evening reception.

It sucks, and it makes me feel like I have no one, but everything I’ve heard from my friends who’ve gotten married says the whole day goes by so fast, and as long as you have everyone there who means the world to you, you won’t feel as though you have anyone missing. Plus you’ll be thankful that you can actually spend time with all YOUR guests at some point during the day, but his family will see less of you.

Smile

Post # 4
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439 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I have this problem too! Fiance is from Ireland and the wedding will be there because he has such a large family and so many friends. Our guestlist is at like 280-300 and I’ve invited way less of my friends and family (like maybe 60 people are my friends and family) than he has and even then I know very few will be coming. It sucks! I really try not to think about it and get upset about it. I’m hoping that like treacle said the day will be so busy that I won’t notice how my of my friends are not there. I’m trying really hard to just be excited about the people I know will be there and be excited about how beautiful our venue is and how much fun everything will be.

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