(Closed) Advice for MOH

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
224 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

With one month to go I say stick it out. Dresses have been bought, expectations made, one day won’t hurt. With that being said—if that is the last day you ever speak to her it would be quite understandable. It seems she has done a 360. All you can do is continue to be a friend–even if that means being one from a distance. True friends are rare and she will see the error of her ways eventually.

Post # 4
Member
5965 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

She asked you to be a maid of honor, not her bitch, if someone isn’t nice to me, or at least polite, i’m not around them anymore….if it’s as bad as you say, no one will blame you. And being a bride is no excuse!  She’s going to be someone’s wife, possibly a mother, time to conduct herself like an adult.

Post # 5
Member
2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would call her and tell her you need to chat ASAP.  Quickly tell er how you’re feeling, ask her wht er thoughts are and f it isn’t going well tell her youre stepping dOwn.

Why should you be treated like dirt because someone put a ring on it?

Post # 6
Member
7759 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Maybe the texts were just sent in haste or misunderstood? Text is not a good medium for communication. I would pretend the texts never happened, and stand and smile in the wedding.

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