Advice for taking space from a friendship?

posted 3 months ago in The Lounge
Post # 47
669 posts
Busy bee

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isoldeabandoned :  Good for you OP. Stay strong, if she tries to contact you again, completely ignore it. She sounds like an absolute psycho. You’re well rid of her.

Post # 48
1355 posts
Bumble bee

Block her now and forever. Close the book. Cut the ties. Don’t weaken and read her response. Let this morning be the end. Be kind to yourself today and do something fun and life affirming. 

Don’t contact her in the future no matter how much time passes. Let’s hope she realises sooner rather than later that she needs to get on with hers, without you in it. Best of luck Bee.


Post # 49
1299 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

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isoldeabandoned :  I understand how frustrating that must feel to have operated from a logical place and to get a response from her that was so illogical. Frustrating because you can’t possibly resolve much less get your point across to someone who can’t understand simple concepts. 

I hope your email to her ending the friendship made it clear that it wasn’t a negotiation and that you would be blocking her and cutting all ties permanently. If you said that to her than there is no reason you need to even read her response. Delete without reading and move on. If you didn’t make it that clear, again don’t read her response just reply with a notification that you didn’t read her response but you wanted to make it clear that you are blocking her and cutting all ties and that this is permanent. Then block and move on. 

Good for you for removing yourself from this situation. I hate to think how horribly she could have escalated in future if you carried on with this and she really snapped. 

Post # 50
5474 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2017

Just cut the cord already. Like a pp said, she sounds psycho. 

Post # 51
4033 posts
Honey bee

I honestly can’t  imagine entertaining this kind of psycho relationship. So glad you cut her loose…I hope you stick with it! 

Post # 52
183 posts
Blushing bee

What in the actual fuck.

This girl sounds 100 shades of crazy…and crazy is not a word I throw around a lot! It sounds like she has an obsession with you that is bordering on dangerous. You need to end this friendship and cut off communication.

I knew a girl who exhibited similar behavior as this, and her actions were at best impulsive, at worst dangerous and I had to almost go to legal lengths to keep her away from me. While I suspect there are some mental issues here with your friend that need to be addressed, that is unfortunate but it isn’t your burden to carry.


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