(Closed) Advice from a former waiting bee

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 18
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192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Soon2BMrsC21:  what a sweetie.. thanks for taking the time to write. JUST what I needed ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 20
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Newbee

It’s helpful to know that other women feel the same thing.

Post # 21
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Helper bee

@Soon2BMrsC21:  this is such a great post! thanks a lot ๐Ÿ™‚ it sounds kind of like having a baby (the proposal) , the wait is soo long and labor (the last waiting stage) is hard but once the baby is out (in this case the ring) you forget all you went through while waiting haha

congratulations on your engagement! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 23
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Blushing bee

@Soon2BMrsC21:  Thanks so much for writing this! I really do think it can help a lot of people who know that the proposal is imminent but are having a hard time with it.

Resentment is really bad for relationships in any case, so taking that energy and doing something more positive with it is definitely a better plan. I don’t mean that women should just wait with men who aren’t communicating or sure that they are ever going to propose, but if you know you have a proposal coming then really that energy is better served elsewhere!

Thanks for the reminder to take things as they come and keep a focus on being happy in the relationship. This is the person you are promising to be with for the rest of your life after all…being happy in the relationship is very important!

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