- 10 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Ugh, I hate to say this but I kinda second USAandKSA‘s question. If he works 24 hour shifts (so I’m guessing like 24 hrs on/24 hrs off or something like that) That would mean there are a lot of days that he’s at home while you’re at work? Do you know how he spends his time while you’re at work? Are there long periods of time where he just “hangs out?” Normally, I wouldn’t accuse a guy of anything just because he has the *opportunity* to cheat, but this sounds like more to me than even just flirting or ego stroking. I’ve had a colorful past with men, I’ll admit. And I’ve had my share of sex buddies. And inevitably every now and then one of them will contact me (I don’t hide it from my husband) and we’ll chat friendly for a few days. It always (every. single time.) comes to a “we should meet up” conversation. Which is where I say “sorry, I’m off the market.” I agree with PP who ask the question “if it was just sex before, why would it be a friendship now?” relationships based on sex only rarely turn into completely platonic friendships.
If it were me, I’d probably try to get in touch with the girl and see what info you can get from her. Haha, but that’s me. Not saying it’s a good idea necessarily 😛 If nothing else, you need to watch this like a hawk. Start asking questions. You don’t have to grill him, but a little “so what did you do today honey?” Keep your eyes open.