(Closed) Advice ladies-slightly long, but readable lol

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
1715 posts
Bumble bee

With his docs okay obviously,  maybe a nice sensual massage  with some good body oil before Kinky fun time?

Could even dress up and play naughty nurse 😉

Post # 4
109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

From it sounds like, he’s dealing with these issues on a deeper level than he’s letting on.

Couple counseling and personal counseling might be able to help him deal with some of his issues that he thinks he has.

Good luck. :/

Post # 5
753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Honestly, short of counseling there’s not really anything you can do to prove he’s legitimately satisfying you. @AquaRhapsody87: was right when they said it’s all on a deeper level. 

I have multiple health issues including a heart condition (which makes me get winded easily) and fibro (sometimes it hurts even to touch me.) Danny and I have a wonderful sex life, but there are many times I WANT to do things that my body just doesn’t allow me to do. I’m started seeing a therapist and it’s been helping, though…

Good luck. <3 

Post # 6
1555 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

As long as you’re both happy, I don’t see why the length of time matters! It would be different if you two weren’t satisfied. It sounds like he probably just worries that he’s not enough for you, which makes sense, because there seems to be a lot of pressure/stereotypes that come along with sex nowadays. I think men have the idea that it should last for hours on end, craziness like that. I would agree that counseling might be a good way to prove to him that you’re satisfied. It doesn’t seem like telling him is really working too well. Maybe there’s another medicine his doctor could try with him?

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