- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014 - Italiano's Humble
FH and I have awesome sex. However, he has severe athritis(sp?), on top of Crohn’s, and I have knee issues. We both have high sex drives, and we do please each other. But, he keeps getting upset constantly, b/c it doesn’t last long. Don’t get me wrong, it’s almost always at LEAST a half hour. But with our age, he gets super upset, b/c we’re both still so young, and his body doesn’t want to cooperate.
I’ve tried explaining that he more than satisfies me, and he also gets his(lol), so I don’t always see the problem. I really don’t. I get that before his conditions became more developed, he was able to go longer and multiple times. This was before we were together, so I don’t feel as though I’m missing anything.
He says he understands I’m fullfilled, and that he is too, but that it still kicks his ass that he isn’t able to do the stuff he was able to do a few years ago. We more or less stick to the 3 basic postions, as that’s mostly what he or I can handle.
I need advice on how to show him that he’s not “bad” so to speak. IDK how to word it. He feels as though he’s jipping me on a level also. But again, I wasn’t around when he was “marathon man” lmao.
Also, he’s on a double shot med. It’s supposed to be for Crohn’s, but helps with the athritis. IDK the name offhand, but I have asked if he’s tried Enbrel. The Crohn’s isn’t really hindering him, it’s the athritis. Anyone have any suggestions here? He was on a different MED before we met, and he said it literally caused him to be angry nonstop, that he would just SNAP over something like a keychain, or some such.
If it helps, he’s 28, I’ll be 30 next month.