(Closed) ADVICE! My daughter is now excluding her sister!

posted 13 years ago in Emotional
Post # 22
Member
6 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Maybe she needs to grow up just a little … I get the whole sister clash I have two older ones and we are all diff. I clash all the time with them but my sister is my maid of honor because she is my sister and I would kill for her.. I know the wedding day is all about the bride but she could be there alone because she keeps pisssing everyone off? or she could suck it up and deal with it

Post # 23
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1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think you should write  OD a letter expressing your equal love for both of them. Sometimes letters are better and the recipient feels less defensive. Try to focus more on her though saying how important she is to you and how proud you are to see her marry and that she is now a mother, as well. In the letter fully express how much you do care for her but her decision is regrettable because as a mom you only wish to see your 2 girls happy and wish they could count on each other as they grow up. If I were you I would still attend and let her know in the letter that even though you wish to have YS there sharing in the moment you will not push it further. And just leave it at that, maybe reading your heart felt letter would sway her decision. But if it doesn’t I would not push it further because ultimately it is her decision who to invite.

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