(Closed) Advice Needed

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
690 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

If he doesn’t want his kids to stay with a nanny or daycare, there is always the option of him staying home with the kids. LOL. Being a stay at home mom isn’t the norm anymore in most places.

Post # 4
Member
1087 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

you answered your own question. He wants a stay at home mom and you do not see yourself being that.

I have nothing against Stay-At-Home Mom but you have pursued higher education and want to do something besides being at home with kids. Maybe he should be a stay at home dad?

 

Post # 5
Member
5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

My advice wouldbe to talk about why he feels the way he does and why you feel the way you do. I think this would be the case for anything serious that you disagree about in a relationship. Did he mention why he wants you to stay at home or is it just because that is the way he was raised. Maybe he is worried about you having time for the children but if you guys discuss how you could make it work while noone gets neglected then that might be a start.

Post # 6
Member
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

You absolutely need to let him know about your feelings on the situation. He’s not the only person who gets a say in this. If this is a deal breaker, then you might not want to waste your time.

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