(Closed) Advice needed! Having one but not all cousins as bridesmaids

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Busy bee

You simply cannot have everyone in your wedding. Have one cousin be a bm. The other two shoud be okay with another job, you can explain that they are also very important to you and that you would be very happy if they would help you in that way. I would still make sure they are invited to all bridal festivities too.

Hopefully the girls will be understanding and be honored to be in the wedding with any job!

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

Pittsburghwed:  If you are closer with one, then i would her in.

Your other cousins should understand that you guys have a closer relationship. If you have something for them to do and be involved – great! But dont benbackwards to find something for them to do. 

Some family members you are just closer with than others. 

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