- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2011
SO, my maid of honor has basically done ALL the work in planning my wedding/bach party. She is my cousin and I knew I could count on her…I only have 2 other bridesmaids, who are sisters. My Maid/Matron of Honor has tried countless times to ask the other 2 for thier input and all they ever give her is “yea im fine with whatever” when the time came for my shower, my cousin had it at my aunts house and asked the other 2 to make games and a prize basket and to just make appetizers, when she asked them for 22 dollars each to cover decorations and the cost of the cake/favors..they said it was too much money! Now its time for my bachelorette party and everything was planned but when I found out I was pregant, we switche4d from going to a club, to going to a comedy club ( a price increase of about 25 dollars) the bridesmaids are not happy with this at all They did not like the dress I picked for them, so my Maid/Matron of Honor is wearing that one, they one they chose was more expensive (not my fault), then they waited until the last minute to get the shoes, which were 25 dollars..but since they waited they had to get a newer style..which ened up being 50. One of them calls me/texts me compling about how my wedding is outrageously espensive…and I was in her wedding with no complaints 6 months ago(in which I recieved a homemade bracelet that she had purchased as a gift) .and I did most of her planning since her Maid/Matron of Honor didnt do it! At this point I am SO furious at the qualities my wedding has brought out in my friends that Im hoping this dosent ruin our friendships for good! ANYWAY…I was going to pay for everyones makeup, but…what do I give my Maid/Matron of Honor who did all of the work plus put up with all of thier crap???