- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Ok…I need a bit of advice from you lovely ladies. I have 5 bridesmaids – my sister, FH sister, FH little cousin and 2 of my best friends. FH’s lil cuz is 19 and it’s the first time she’s been a bridesmaid. I asked her because we had been quite close when FH and I got engaged.
In the last few months this girls attitude has changed. She is having relationship problems with her Boyfriend or Best Friend, has decided she can’t come to my hen weekend as she has “her own holiday to pay for”. She does not respond to text messages or emails from the other girls and shows a real lack of interest.
Last week I took all my bridesmaids to dinner along with FH’s mom and my mom. I went to the bar to buy everyone a drink, and came back, everything was fine. Last night I had my Future Mother-In-Law on the phone really upset. This bridesmaid has been carrying stories between everyone and basically shit stirring. She twisted a full conversation to make it look like I was bitching about my Future Mother-In-Law which I would not do.
I’m not quite sure how to react to be honest. This Bridesmaid or Best Man has also teamed up with Future Sister-In-Law to create a them and us divide between my bridesmaids – Grrr!!!
Any help appreciated 🙁