- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2016
My love and I have been talking about getting engaged for a few months now. We tried on rings in February.
My SO and I were taking a drive a few weeks ago, and someone called him. He picked up via Bluetooth as he was behind the wheel, and the voice that came in said something about being the jeweller. Of course, my SO hung up really quickly and played it cool saying it was a client that called him all the time on the weekend. I didn’t want to ruin the surprise as clearly he didn’t want me to know, but now I can’t stop thinking about proposing. In a couple of weeks we are going on a trip, and our anniversary is coming up a few weeks later, and now, I am afraid I’ll ruin the surprise by constantly hoping he’ll propose. I am also concerned that I will not truly enjoy myself during the trip and our anniversary as I know I will feel disappointed despite myself if it doesn’t happen.
Do you ladies have any tips or tricks on how to STILL make the most of every moment and stop expecting a proposal? I need to stop thinking “This is it!”!! Did anything like this happen to you ladies before getting engaged? Thank you!