- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
I’ve been asked by a friend of mine to be a stand-in bridesmaid at her wedding in a couple months and I’m very uncomfortable with this situation. Her original bridesmaid is physically unable to participate and I feel quite strongly that it’s inappropriate to replace her and I feel that it would honor her friend more if she didn’t replace her altogether. I don’t know the bride well enough anymore to know her reaction when I decline and I’m not sure if it will change our friendship for good. She’s already expressed frustration at my hesitation. Looking for some advice!