(Closed) Advice on this situation with my SO’s best friend’s wife, please?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1526 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

If she doesn’t even know what she is apologizing for then what is the point? I don’t think you’re the problem here but I can understand how they want you two to make up. I would just say that if she doesn’t know what she’s apologizing for then you are not going to have a heart to heart with her for a meaningless apology.  It is very possible for two adults to be amicable towards each other and not have to be best friends. Hope you figure it out and have a good trip:)

Post # 4
488 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think you should just handle it how you normally would.  Why should you be pressured into apologizing when she was the one who started the drama?  You will be the bigger person once you approach the situation with grace and civility.  Please have an awesome weekend, and don’t let some girl with issues ruin it for you.  

Trust me I understand… I have to deal with an ex wife/child’s mother. 

Post # 5
1963 posts
Buzzing bee

I have to say, I just think it would be weird for them to go away (as a threesome) without you.  If you need to, ice her and have a good time with your boys.  They obviously like you.  She better act right!

Post # 6
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

my belief is you choose your friends, not your friends partners so i other than being polite and friendly i dont feel that you and her need to be friends but out of respect to your husbands either need to learn to get along or let the guys have their weekends away without you (i meant both of the wives)

Post # 7
248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

“They want me to talk to her so she can apologize to me…”

If she is willing to apologize to you then she should talk to you, you shouldn’t have to approach her about it. I would feel the same way you do. I would just be an adult and have a nice weekend. I hope it works out for you!

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