(Closed) Advice please!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ybrittany:  

A) I’ve seen encore brides have bridal showers. I see nothing wrong with it. I’ve also seen mothers of 2nd,3rd et al children have baby showers. They are fun get togethers

B) Also my mother says since I don’t support her $ wise anymore that I’m useless to her. And what she means by that is since I work so much I should buy her things and spend money on her

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ybrittany:  You could do Unity Sand instead of the Unity Candle. In that sand ceremony, it’s just the couple involved.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

So sorry to hear this!!  Have you tried showing up on her doorstep and trying to have a heart to heart? Or maybe if she refuses to answer the door you can write her a letter and slip it under the door?  Maybe she just needs to hear that you love her, and don’t want to celebrate your marriage with out her. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Wow, that is horrible!

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

to me your mother sounds jealous and wants you to herself. Live your life.

Does your Future Mother-In-Law know about the unity candle and her lighting it. If not then I suggest that you and Fiance both go and light the candles in honor of your fathers. My sister and her Darling Husband did this for his mother that passed

As for having a shower and being your second marriage I know loads of people who do that.

 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Get her a copy of Emily Post, and mark the page where it states, “Whatever the bride would like…” end of problem.

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