(Closed) Advice, please

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1220 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Hmmm I don’t like the way that sounds…..have you actually asked him if marriage is in his plans? I think a serious discussion where you both talk about what you want and need is in order. Then you can decide if you’re on the same page and go from there.  

Post # 5
934 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I agree, time to have a serious sit down discussion about marriage and the future. If you are not on the same page, time to make some hard decisions.

Buying a home without your knowledge is a big red-flag I think. Even if you weren’t buying the home with him, you still live with him and share your life with him. A purchase such as that will affect you too – that he didn’t even talk to you beforehand about what he was thinking about is kind of crazy. 

Post # 6
358 posts
Helper bee

I agree after five years you guys should definently be making important life decisions together as a partnership. I cant imagine my guy just buying a house without my knowledge. Good luck

Post # 7
1583 posts
Bumble bee

@LadyS:  hmm. Are you sure he ever wants to take it to the next level? It seems like maybe you need to move out and regain your own life. If he decided he wants to combine lives he’ll react accordingly. if not chuck the deuces.

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