Advice please

posted 10 months ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Bumble bee

What else did you say that was mean?  It sounds a little funny that you insulted his ex and he is now not talking to you- why does he care what is said about her…

Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

2ndchance :  How can she take more than the court ordered amount of child support?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

She stole?

Post # 7
Hostess
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

2ndchance :  so your issue really is his lack of boundaries with her. A legit concern. But, if hes been waiting 4.5 years for a divorce, he’s probably spent right now. Give him some time to recover emotionally if you want to talk about boundaries. 

Caveat, stay out of his fears re seeing his kid. Maybe suggest he find a therapist to help him navigate that better, but don’t be the bad guy.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

A lawyer should be moderating that?  Nobody “has to let somebody just take money” without a lawyer knowing about it in a divorce.  Am I incorrect?

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

I’m not understanding how you’ve been with this man for years, he’s been separated from his childs mother nearly five years and yet they still have an account together with funds she can access? Why was her name not taken off years ago? 🤔

Post # 14
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Busy bee

2ndchance :  He couldn’t prioritize filing divorce paperwork for nearly 5 years and you’re surprised that he’s struggling with confrontation? 

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