(Closed) Advice Please! -Colored Gemstones (Sapphire) e-ring and am I crazy?! (PIC HEAVY)

posted 5 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Which ring would you recommend for me?
    Lavender Sapphire Halo Pave : (88 votes)
    55 %
    Pale Blue Sapphire Halo Pave : (29 votes)
    18 %
    White Sapphire Halo Pave : (9 votes)
    6 %
    Other Ring? (Comment) : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Lavender Sapphire Halo Plain : (24 votes)
    15 %
    Pale Blue Sapphire Halo Plain : (5 votes)
    3 %
    White Sapphire Halo Plain : (4 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    4659 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Ooooh the lavender with the pave would be my pick I think.

    Post # 4
    1671 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Agreed! Those sapphires are beautiful!

    Post # 5
    6359 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Unfortunately, with any natural resource (e.g., natural gemstone) there is the chance of ethical issues. It is actually more difficult to get documentation on the background of a non-diamond gemstone (though not impossible). Same thing for melee diamonds in many ring designs… (consider that, e.g., a melee diamond halo around a colored gem ring actually has many more diamonds in it than a diamond solitare does). Even synthetics have issues regarding pollution. Never mind the ethical concerns about the metal in the ring! Any product we buy has the very real potential to have ethical concerns about it, whether or not popular Hollywood movies have been made to that effect.

    On a brighter note, I absolutely do think that colored gems “age well.” In particular, a ceylon blue sapphire, ruby or emerald never look out of place on any woman… in fact I think older women pull off these gemstones better than younger women do! Those are the most popular colors of corundum/beryl, but other colors are beautiful too! Personally, I would go for something with a bit more color to it than the examples you shared, to me these colors feel a bit “faded”…you could do a more saturated pastel if pastel is what you like… but it really comes down to personal preference. I would suggest a corundum over a beryl if you are planning to wear it daily, because the higher hardness will hold up well over the years.

    By The Way, personally my engagement ring is diamond, but I love colored gemstones as well.

    Post # 6
    1098 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    That lavender stone is probably the prettiest sapphire I have ever seen!

    Post # 7
    377 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @hidingpearl:  I love the lavendar sapphire with a pave band it would look stunning!! the pale blue would also look really lovely. Oh and to your question about whether they age well, diamonds only became popular in the last 50 years or so before that sapphire and ruby rings were more common and my nan still wears hers and it looks immaculate, she has never taken it off in 50 years except to do the dishes and to shower and she inspired my sapphire ring =] Hope you arent waiting too long but glad you found the boards they kept me sane during the waiting process xx


    thats mine ^_^


    Post # 8
    2073 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    I have never seen a pale blue sapphire before and now I am drooling! I’m not much help because I think all of those stones are gorgeous – don’t think you can go wrong with any of them!

    Post # 9
    246 posts
    Helper bee

    I am loving the pastel coloured sapphires!  I am particularly drawn to the yellow with halo and pave.

    Post # 10
    131 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I feel like the yellows make the stones look like a poor grade of diamond..  every once and awhile in a certain light I catch a glimpse of my diamond with a yellow hue and it irks me. The blue almost makes the outside diamonds look yellow-ish. I am quite a fan of the lavendar though.. it looks very vintage. It also looks like you meant for it to be that way ๐Ÿ™‚ I vote lavendar! 

    Post # 11
    173 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I dont have a pale blue sapphire, but I have a pale aquamarine with pave halo and band which looks very similar to one of your choices. I went with an aqua because of sentimental value, but it has the added benefit of being budget-friendly too. I think classic colored stones like rubies, emeralds, aquas, and opals age well and do not look “trendy” or “dated” on someone as they advance in years. I say go for the color!


    Here is mine just for reference:

    Post # 12
    210 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @hidingpearl:  I did toy with the idea of a pink stone for my ering. However, I am the type of person that get bored fast and a colored stone for me, might not match with everything. So I decided with a white sapphire and white diamonds (halo). This is what mine looks like.


    Above is indoors without any direct light. Below is also still indoors with direct light

    I hope this helps!

    Post # 13
    2743 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

    I like the lavendar but I’m partial to purples.


    My purple color changer:


    Post # 14
    4099 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Did you look at the rings on this thread? (not intentionally promoting my own thread, just showing all the pretty colored stone rings!!)

    Post # 15
    478 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I love them ALL! My ring is super similar to the style you’re looking at ๐Ÿ™‚ It’s a blue topaz for FI’s birthstone (& the month he proposed!) 

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