(Closed) Advice pls pls help!!!

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper

This is clearly early signs of physical abuse. This is not healthy for you or your child

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Post # 4
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Bumble bee

butterfly1:  He sounds like an absolute w*nker. This is abuse and typically the kind that only gets worse and worse if you don’t remove yourself from the situation. You do not deserve this kind of behaviour, he is not treating you right and is a bully.

Please contact a help hotline like the PP has suggested or possible a women’s refuge. The sooner you are out of the situation the better.

I am so sorry you are having to go through this and being made to feel this way.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

He is a abusing you. Please stay safe and get you and your child out of the situation as soon as possible.

Post # 6
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Honey bee

butterfly1:  I agree with PPs. This is emotional abuse, which could very well turn physical. You ARE strong enough to walk away. Make an escape plan, and leave. Make sure your friends and family know your plan. Please, do it not only for yourself, but for your child. He/she shouldn’t have to live like this. Do you think he/she will want to hear their dad constantly criticizing and talking down to their mother? 

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Can you talk when he is at work? If the house is yours then you could get a restraining order and change the locks. Do you have family, friends or a shelter you can go to?

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

He must be out of the house at some times, like when he wants to facetime check up on you.  Could you call the hotline at that time.  They would be more aware of legal and shelter resources in your area.  They can help you make a plan.  Can you not contact your family when he is out of the house?

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I hope MrsMilitaryBee sees this, she gives great advice in these types of situations. Maybe PM her? 

in the meantime definitely call the hotline above and make plans to get out of there. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

butterfly1:  that’s very typical of abusers – periods of abuse followed by periods of time where he couldn’t be nicer to you.

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