(Closed) Advice regarding friends

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would tell them what you wrote in your last two sentences (minus your friends haven’t move on part).  The past is the past and let’s move forward 🙂

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Clear communication is always best. Just tell them that you do not want to discuus the issue- the past is past , and you would appreciate it if they would move on.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Just nip it in the bud the next time they bring it up.  “Can we talk about something else?  I know she’s not your favorite, but she’s my friend” should do it.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@lovejewel:  I think this is a good idea.

@Cremebrulee41:  I’ve been a Bridesmaid or Best Man 4 times and there is always a time after the wedding when you sit down with other people involved and kind of rant about stuff that occurred.  I know that, in particular, there was one time where another Bridesmaid or Best Man was SO frustrating that my friend and I will still sometimes make a joke about it…however, we never do that infront of the bride/friend.  It wasn’t her problem and she has other issues with that particular person.

They probably think that you still want to decompress about the situation and participate in their rant session.  Just let them know you’re not into that and that should stop them.

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