(Closed) Advice to help friend on bedrest?

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
Member
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’ve never been on bedrest for too long.  But, I can say that I’d love for someone to smuggle me yummy food!  But I’m not sure what she’d be premitted to actually eat in her condition so I guess maybe that’s not the best idea.  Moving on, I’d like dvd’s for my laptop, strictly comedies, because who wants to be sad sitting in a hospital bed?  Or comfy pj’s would be nice.  I think just some providing your company and your offer to help should they need it is ultimately the best thing you can do. 

Post # 4
Member
4024 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I was never admitted to the hospital, but when I stayed there afterwards there were things that I knew needed to be done and I wasn’t doing them! You could go feed their animals, water their plants, run any errands. You could also take her some things to do, like watch movies, puzzle books, a good book, maybe an easy craft while she is laying around, like baby books, etc. I would go and visit her a lot too, jsut to keep her company. I hope it all works out for her!

Post # 5
Member
7083 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

I was on bedrest at home for a month… and let me tell you that above all, it is boring!  Bring her movies, teach her how to knit, come talk to her and hang out, bring treats.  She’s probably really uncomfortable, so anything pampering is great (new toenail polish etc).

It’s so nice of you to be thinking of her and helping her out!

Post # 6
Member
2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

So nice of you!!  I haven’t been on bedrest either, but I am sure she would love company – especially if it was low key type of company vs. entertaining.  Come over with a movie, something to eat, etc.  Call and ask her if she needs anyone to get her groceries, pick up her drycleaning, get stuff she needs for baby’s arrival (diapers, bottles, etc)- usually the more specific you can be the better which it sounds like is what you are trying to do! (e.g., “let me know how I can help” is often a genuinely nice, but not helpful way to help 🙂 

i think asking her husband is a great idea too.

Post # 8
Member
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

When a friend was in the hospital, I bought a pedicure kit for her and took some pretty polishes to the hospital and did her nails for her. That was years ago and she still talks about how much it meant to her.

Post # 9
Member
5823 posts
Bee Keeper

I was on bedrest twice (at home though) and like DG said it is BORING.  So incredibly boring!  Anything that can pass the time for her like a good book (something light and uplifting perhaps).  Movies (if she has a DVD player), a Nintendo DS with games, playing cards (stay and play with her!), etc.  If she has a hobby (like knitting or crocheting) then get her supplies for that.  Also, anything you can do to pamper her (foot rubs, back rubs, pedicure, manicure, etc).  I know that my DH’s foot massages were the best part of my days when I was on bedrest!

Post # 10
Member
12 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I’m on partial bedrest now…trying to stay off of full bedrest…and I would concur with the other ladies – it’s mostly BORING!  Go by and visit, keep her company, bring her something to occupy her mind as there is NOTHING on TV to watch during the day.  Puzzles, word games, number games, or just your presence could be all that much better!

But the pampering idea sounds AWESOME as well!

The topic ‘Advice to help friend on bedrest?’ is closed to new replies.

Get our weekly roundup of the best of Weddingbee.
I agree to receive emails from the site. I can withdraw my consent at any time by unsubscribing.

Find Amazing Vendors