(Closed) Advice to the Newly Engaged

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry that you are having problems with the wedding planning.  At least you don’t have much time left and the day of will just be a day to hang back and have fun with your friends and family!

Post # 4
Member
1854 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Oh I’m sorry you had to learn this the hard way! You are actually offering very smart advise to fellow bees, and I wish that it will be taken seriously. My experience was completely different… Just like you, we wanted something very intimate and keep our money for travelling and a home. So we chose the Destination Wedding for these reasons. We got a lot of criticism from our families (and even behind our backs!) but we held our ground.
There is not a single thing we would change about our wedding, no regrets; plus we’re travelling and renovating all over the next year.

So yeah, if some of you out there hesitate about a wedding, really, it’s yours and your FI’s day: do what YOU want – do not spend all this money only to please others…

@runskiclimb: other bees have changed their wedding plans in the process… I think arizonabride for example… maybe you should chat with her!

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