(Closed) Advice….2 months to go

posted 5 years ago in June 2013
  • poll: What did you stress about most?
    The weather on your big day : (13 votes)
    34 %
    If your dress would fit properly : (10 votes)
    26 %
    If the groom would show up : (0 votes)
    Something big would go wrong : (15 votes)
    39 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I have two months to go too. Now figuring out where to get alterations, shower hostess gifts, favors and welcome bag items are my stressors. All the small things that you put off until the end…*Sigh*

     

    Post # 5
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @june2013bride:  I feel like that too…I make a lot of lists and have googled “things commonly forgotten” so that I can see if there is something im missing lol

    Post # 6
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    1729 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    For me, it’s logistics in general. I worry about if there will be enough time for pics (not doing a first look), when the flowers, hair/makeup people and trolley will arrive…when the speeches will happen, the garter toss, where will I seat people, where will the gifts table go, etc…I constantly worry about all the stuff I can’t control…which is obviously a super effective use of my time.

    The next things on my list are the seating chart (as RSVP’s roll in), welcome bags and day-of materials. The company who did an amazing job on our letterpress invites is also doing our day-of materials, and they’re super creative, so I’m sure that will all be fine. We can’t really do anything with the welcome bags until we get to Philly the week of the wedding (just so much less to ship up there in advance).

    Post # 7
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    1408 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I really havent had ANY stress during the wedding planning. I have a day-of coordinator so I’m relying on her to keep the day running smoothly. Lately, I’ve been trying to figure out what specific decor items I want. I have only seen my venue once (in October bc we are having a destination wedding) so I don’t remember the exact layout of everything. Plus, I am not a good visualized so I’m relying on my planner & florist to pull it all together.

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Two months?  Nonsense.   There are a FULL 74 days till my wedding…that’s like seven months….right????

    Post # 9
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    449 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @june2013bride:  Date twins! 

     

    For some reason I have this fear that either a) nothing will get done/paid for on time. OR b) that I’ve planned my budget for 100-150 people and then only 20 will show up

     

    I have so many stress dreams haha

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @peachacid:  Haha!! I feel the same way!! Unfortunately I keep saying the same thing about my diet.. “no problem, I still have plenty of time!” **sigh**

    I haven’t really been stressed about anything really, I am a bit nervous about how I’ll look on the big day. I just want to feel my prettiest, and I’m hoping I do!

    i also really hope all my vendors come through and do what they are supposed to do, but there’s not too much I can do about that.. I just have to trust that they are professionals and they should do what I’m paying them to do.

    I can’t believe it’s getting so close!

    Post # 11
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    764 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @june2013bride:  My biggest fear that that something big (no idea what big is) would go wrong. My friends caterer back out the night before their wedding!! That is like my worst nightmare!!!

    Post # 12
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    1004 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Well I just found out 4 weeks ago that I had to move, huge move…I have los of kids, major move, thankfully we found a house quick ( we are renters for one more year until we decide we are ready to buy). HORRIBLE timing. I have a lot of DIY stuff going on…and right now all I can think about is the move.  Probably going to scrap some of it and call it a day. The only have too’s right now are the sign in canvas and the centerpieces. But we still have to write vows, and I have yet to meet with the musicians for the service or the pastor to finalize ceremony. Its going to be a busy month of may for me.

     

    oh have hair trial and final dress fitting to squeeze in there too LOL

    Post # 13
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    398 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Im first ahh lol 

    Post # 16
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I’m really stressed about weather. This past week we had tornado scares every where. Hello April in Alabama. I was stuck at work( yes people flooded the salon I worked at because school was let out early, lets worry about our hair during a torando warning LOL), and the news came on about a tornado touching down in the small town where my church was located, my heart sank into my stomach. Thank the lord Everything was fine and Nothing and noone was hurt. I’m more worried about tornado weather then my actual wedding day weather right now. I just feel like if we can make it through april/may with no torando we will be good 🙂 Everything else wedding wise is great and right on track !

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