Advice/Tips for Swallowing?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I get a sore throat when I swallow too, so I usually hold it in my mouth and then run to the sink to spit it out. Lol. If his frustration is from not being able to finish due to stopping early, that may be a solution. If he literally wants you to swallow despite the fact that it gives you a sore throat, though, that’s ridiculous.

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I don’t think you should have to if you don’t want to (and that’s great Darling Husband isn’t pressuring you). However, I will give you my tip when I do swallow (when I’ve been too lazy to go to the bathroom and spit). I don’t breath out of my nose – that way I can’t really taste it. I do think it’s a gross thing to do though, you’re swallowing bodily fluids

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Do it fast is my advice. Haha I swallow because I don’t want it to be in my mouth because it tastes bad. One time, after having a few sticks of gum, it was minty. That was fun. Taste has to do a lot with diet. If he eats garbage it will taste bad. If he eats healthier/more natural it will taste less bad. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

I’m in same boat!! I reallllly want to do this for honeymoon but when I’ve even thought about it, I’ve chickened out. 

He doesn’t pressure me and it actually turns me on to think about it but still. 😳

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

If you watch him closely you can see when he’s about to cum (or ask him to let you know). You can keep your mouth close to his penis and when he starts to cum mostly remove your mouth and continue using your hands. Any cum that gets in your mouth, let it dribble out so you aren’t swallowing it (getting a sore throat to satisfy your man is asking too much, IMO- especially if he’s hoping you’ll do this regularly without dreading it.).

A lot of guys get some terrible and abusive ideas about how to have sex from porn but there are actually a lot of really helpful fellatio and cunnilingus videos that have been made by adult film stars that are classified as porn because of the subject matter.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Spit it in the sink! Run to the bathroom after and spit it in the sink then brush your teeth. You’ll both be happy this way 🙂 Him going in your mouth does not have to mean you need to eat it after.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

stephaniee24 :  haha! Really it’s the same consistency as snot. Have you ever had to hawk a loogie? That is what I compare it to. 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

My advice is… don’t do it! I’ve swallowed a few times when I wasn’t in a position to dart to the bathroom sink, but 99% of the time I run away real quick, swish with mouthwash, and come back for cuddles. I’m sure there are other places he likes to finish that you both can agree on. 😉

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

Just make sure you have a lot of saliva in your mouth (this will make it a better experience for him overall anyway) and you won’t notice it as much, then go spit. It’s not worth having a sore throat over.

Post # 14
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Busy bee

I just spit it out afterwards. I agree that the consistency is like snot. Try to move away your tongue when he cums so you don’t feel the taste that much. My Fiance actually doesn’t taste bad, for example. Keep it in the front at the bottom of your mouth while going to spit. Have a glass of lemon water near your bed for afterwards or just go brush your teeth/use mouthwash.

In the end if you want to do it, you have to overcome whatever disgusts you and just do it.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper

If you find the taste unpleasant, it would seem to me that holding it in your mouth while you rush to the sink would make you taste it more, not less, than swallowing. If you have him in your mouth when he comes and don’t want to taste it, take him deeper in your mouth as he comes so that it goes down your throat instead of onto the taste buds on the portion of your tongue that’s in your mouth. (Opposite advice for those who like the taste/sensation)

I don’t know why it would cause a sore throat? Unless it’s the act itself that is causing a sore throat and not whether or not he ejaculates- is he thrusting into your mouth or are you moving your head? If it’s the former and you’re getting a sore throat, you may need to let him lie back and take the lead, be less vigorous. 

If, however, you’re just put off by the entire act and find it gross or uncomfortable, then don’t feel pressured into do it, even if the pressure is coming from yourself feeling you ought to be doing this to please your bf. No-one should do someting they’re not happy and comfortable with and a loving partner will respect this. 

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