Afraid my FH won't like my wedding dress!!! :'(

posted 1 year ago in Dress
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Can we see pics of your dress? I’m sure he will like whatever dress you picked on you.

Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

The same dress can look very different on different people, I wouldn’t worry about it. Honestly, he probably won’t even remember those dresses next week much less when he sees you on your wedding day.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

You are going to look BEAUTIFUL on your wedding day and your fiancé isn’t going to be noticing the details of your dress, he’s only going to be focused on how incredible you look in it. Don’t worry about this for a second. Wear the dress you love, because that is what is going to make you look most happy and gorgeous.

Post # 5
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Honey bee

You should wear the dress you love. He’s not wearing it, you are. I’m sure he’ll think you look beautiful no matter what you’re wearing. 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

Most guys don’t notice all the details in clothing, especially women’s clothing. It probably wasn’t the dresses he didn’t like, it was the way they fit on those women. 

Don’t stress, he’ll love you in your dress!!

Post # 7
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Busy bee

He’ll love your dress regardless, because you will be in it!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2019

I think it’s so easy for guys to say they don’t like something on someone else but when he sees you in it it’s going to be different because it’s you. 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

Guys tend to do this thing where they blurt out an initial reaction to something, but it’s not really that big of a deal to them.  We hear this stuff and then go “OH CHRIST IT’S ALL RUINED” because we take their comments overly seriously.  If I had to guess, he will have zero memory of ever having any opinion at all by the time the wedding rolls around.  If you love the dress (it’s beautiful!), then I think you’re totally good.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

First of all, that is a beautiful dress!

I wouldn’t take his comment to heart. Just because he doesn’t like a style of dress on random people doesn’t mean he won’t love it on YOU. For example, personally I don’t care for mermaid dresses, but I’ve seen mermaid dresses in real life and thought that the brides have looked absolutely beautiful in them. Your happiness on your wedding day shines through and makes you beautiful no matter what you’re wearing. Also, he is going to be seeing his bride on his wedding day – I can guarantee he won’t notice that the dress isn’t the style that he prefers.

The dress is for YOU to feel beautiful on your wedding day, so wear what makes you feel beautiful. Your FH will think you are beautiful regardless.

Post # 13
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Busy bee

How could he not like that dress…it is beautiful!!!

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