(Closed) Afraid no one will come. (PIC HEAVY)

posted 6 years ago in Venue
Post # 3
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

It’s a beautiful venue! I would book it just for the pictures! And if 1-1/2 or 2 hour drive is too much for some people, I would begin to look at them differently, it’s not that long of a trip! You are not asking them to go to Alaska, or Australia! 

Post # 4
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5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

heck, I drive an hour each way to work every day.  You best better believe I’d drive an hour and a half/two hours to a wedding.

Book it!

Post # 5
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1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

book it- its your day- have it where YOU WANT IT. more then half our guests have a 1.5 hr drive.. they knew up front.

my previous wedding- Everyone had 1.5-2 hr drive an we had 125 people. I would again just let them know up front… and set up hotel arrangements..then enjoy your day!

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I say have the wedding you want where you want it and the people that really matter will be there to celebrate. An hour and a half isn’t that far in the grand scheme of things and I’ve found in general, if you build it they will come!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@GroovyHippieChick:  This!

It’s beautiful…  If you don’t book it you will always regret it.  🙂

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Its that Kate’s dress?

I LOVE IT. 

I’d book wherever you want. THe important people will make the effort to be there. 

Post # 9
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429 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I wanted a wedding in San Francisco (a 2 hour drive) and decided to stay local and more plain just because I thought nobody would come.  I understand what  you are going through.  Then again, one of my biggest fears is that my reception will be boring and empty so even though I’m local I’m still worried.

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

People will come!  My wedding involves flights for most people (significant travel), and even now, 6 months out, hotel rooms are booking up. I would make it earlier in the day (Afternoon wedding) to accomodate people driving back after, though

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Get the venue you like. Often times people have to go with venues about an hour outside of town because its AFFORDABLE. Its a wedding, its free food and fun, people who don’t want to drive an hour and half for that are just plain silly. Also if less people come you don’t have to pay for their meal but you might still get a gift- ha!

If I had to guess you should worry more about people leaving early (so they don’t have to make the drive back tired) then people not showing up. Is there a little hotel or motel near by that you could get a group rate at? People might be more likely to come and stay late if they can crash near the wedding site.

Ultimately you are not asking anyone to go way out of their way. You have to do what makes sense for your budget.

Post # 12
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339 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

The best advice I’ve received as far as the wedding goes is “its about you and your Fiance, and as long as you both are happy, nothing else matters”.  That being said, if you want to get married in a particular way, in a particular setting, then people will have to accept that.  If they care about you, they will show up.  If you will be happier getting married at that location with fewer people possibly showing up than you would at a local place with potentially more people showing up, then do it at your dream location!  You don’t want to be disappointed—this is the ONE day that is about YOU and your Fiance.  So make it about you both and not about what the guests would prefer!!! 🙂  Now, if I could just follow my own advice 😉

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

We had people drive 5 hrs and they weren’t even family.  It shocked the heck out of us, but they did it.  Especially for a beautiful location… it’s totally worth it.

Post # 15
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3368 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@EffieTrinket:  Whoa.  Yeah.  I’d book it.

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