Afraid of stealing thunder

posted 4 months ago in Engagement
  • poll: What to do...
    Go for it. : (104 votes)
    100 %
    Throw your plans away. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2018

    This is about you and her, not her friend! Don’t change your plans. Good luck! 

    Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2016

    do: propose as planned

    don’t: propose at her friends engagement party

    Post # 5
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    Sugar bee

    I don’t believe in holding up significant life events for other people unless we’re talking about a sick family member attending a wedding or something like that. I say go for it, and if its a good friend, they will be happy for you both!

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    Go for it! Otherwise, how do you decide what is an appropriate length of time to wait? You’ve already got the plans, stick to them.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    There’s no such thing as stealing thunder unless you do it during her friends engagemrnt party, birthday party, wedding, etc. 

    Good luck and congrats! 

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee

    My friend and I got engaged the same day- it wasn’t planned this way, but we were totally happy for each other and zero sense of any stolen thunder. 🙂

    Post # 9
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    Helper bee

    If you wait for everyone in your life to be ready with you, you’ll never do anything ever. 

    Post # 10
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    I’d say go for it! And congratulations! 😊

    Post # 11
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    Bee Keeper

    Totally not stealing her friend’s thunder.

    Post # 12
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    133 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    Keep your plans. Congratulations! 

    Post # 13
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    Worker bee

    Her friend should be excited to have someone to ‘talk shop’ with! Congrats!

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2017

    Go for it.  They’ll have more fun planning together. 

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2017 - Outside in Paris

    Go for it!!

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