Post # 1
Hi, its 6 yrs engaged relationship but ended in 2011 summer. After he’a had new gf in 2012 xmas then removed me on FB in 2013 summer but still shared with same common friends and his dad and cousins and friends but i dont have any interactions with them for 3 yrs.
my ex starts putting the photos with his gf as profile photos, g+ and fb but he keeps me in his g+ circle (but i removed him there last autumn since I felt I’ve moved on and ready for new life)
But, just couple weeks ago, hanged out an old friend and she was curious about my ex look so i googled his name to show her. Then, I found he reopeNed his twitter profile and the profile photo is where we used to live together, which he took after i moved out. my friend said if my ex had moved on, would not use any photo related to the life with me, just like what he did on fb and g+. She thinks my ex might think of our past now and wants me to ‘find’ him. I laughed when when my friend said that but after she left, I’ve been thinking of her words… Is that possible? But he had told me “as to him, he wishes i dont contact him any more”
well, he’s still with his gf, i know i just need to focus on myself. If they really want to be with you, they will find any way to reach you. I know but also i wonder.
ow how would you think or say? Any talk is good and welcome.
Post # 2
Maybe he just likes that photo of himself? I don’t think this has anything to do with you.
Post # 3
So he used a photo of himself… in a place where he lived?
I don’t see the problem. Like at all.
Post # 4
Is it a photo of just him or one of you and him? If it’s just him sitting in a room in a place you two had together, I don’t think that’s him wanting you to contact him, it’s him liking how he looks in the picture.
Post # 5
I highly doubt it has anything to do with you. You broke up four years ago. You need to move on.
Post # 6
Wait… So you’re not in this photo is that correct? Who cares what time of his life a picture of him is from? Sounds to me like you’re not quite over him.
Post # 7
Mayforce: I think you should stop googling your ex. He probably just pulled up any old picture and it isn’t because at some point you lived there. It sounds like he continued to live there after you- so he doesn’t think of it as your place- he thinks of it as his.
Post # 8
playdohpants: KitSnicket: FutureBride625: It sounds to me like the photo is of the home itself.
Mayforce: And if that is the case, then what is the problem? That is like saying my mom can’t have the photos of me when I was 16 hanging up because I am no longer with that Boyfriend or Best Friend. If he is not in them, what difference does it make?
Post # 9
Mayforce: You really can’t and shouldn’t try to analyze what someone meant by posting a picture only tangentially related to you. Like probably one or two pictures on my Facebook were taken by an ex, but it’s not like he’s in them. I just like the pictures.
Also, people use Google+? Huh.
Post # 10
Mayforce: You are over thinking this. Men are not that complicated. If he wanted you, he would find you. Time for you to finish moving on yourself, just like he has.
Post # 11
Mayforce: I think you’re reaching…
Post # 12
You’re not in the photo so I’m sure it’s nothing.
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Post # 14
Mayforce: Men don’t think like that. The end.
Post # 15
unicornphish: That was my first thought…people actually use google +?
OP, I think you’re overreaching with this. It probably has nothing to do with you.