After how many LTRs did you meet the person you wanted to settle down with?

posted 3 weeks ago in Beehive
Post # 2
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Sugar bee

Define long term.

 

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

Just 1 🙂

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I’ve had two long term relationships (and no short term). The first my ex fiance, and the other my husband. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2020 - Clarksville, VA

I’ve only had one other relationship make it past a year. 

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018 - UK

Prior to meeting my husband, I had a 5 year relationship, then a 9 month relationship, and then a 4 year relationship. I’d consider it two long term and one short term, but I guess the middle one depends on how you define long term.

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

I only had one. Dated a guy for two years before meeting my husband.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee

4 if you’re looking for LTRs that lasted at least a year. To be fair, a couple were young puppy love and only 2 were really formative/changed me as a partner.

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Bumble bee

Long term as in over a year? 5. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

I dated one guy for 2.5 years that went from high school into college so I don’t totally count that. The next relationship was my now husband.

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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2021

I’m marrying the only guy I ever dated for more than six months haha 

Going on five years up in hurr. 

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

elk91 :    7 in total before I met my husband when I was close to 29. 

Two 3-year relationships and three 1-year relationships when I was younger. During my formative years, one 1-year relationship and one 6-month relationship. I feel like there would’ve been a lot more had I not learned to start identifying red flags better early on as I got older and more experienced. 

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Helper bee

None. Met my husband in my mid-20s and previously had only short-term boyfriends.

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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2021

My FH is my second long term/ serious relationship. I was a late bloomer in general – first kiss at 22, first serious relationship at 25.

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Helper bee

One- I had a relationship in school that lasted a couple of years, before I met my fiance when I was 18.

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