(Closed) After proposal?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
1938 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Kacey23:  I think we were too filled with adrenaline to do it right after! I was shaky for an hour!  Plus, we were calling family to share the news– not exactly sexy time lol

I’m sure there are some (especially younger bees) that do it right away, but for the “older” folks I would bet it’s more of a wait until the night thing 🙂

Post # 4
2178 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

We didn’t do it at all, he proposed while we were staying at my parents’ house over the holidays. We weren’t comfortable having sex there, so we waited several days until we got back home.

Post # 5
1282 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017 - Baton Rouge, LA

The day we got engaged, my favorite team was playing a later than normal football game, so we didnt get home til 11:30pm, and honestly, we were both drained! We saved it for the next night & it was the bomb. dot com.

Post # 7
1031 posts
Bumble bee

We had sexy time after he proposed, not like right after, he finished his dinner, and we went for a walk. I had so much energy and had to do something. It was not romantic though… I remember staring at my ring half the time… thakfully I don’t think he noticed.

Post # 8
445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014


But not because of getting engaged – we just have sex a lot.

Post # 9
8444 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@mallo:  +1, this exactly! 

To OP, we would’ve had sex whether or not we got engaged that day.

Post # 10
7208 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@Kacey23:  Well I got proposed to yesterday. We left home at 9am and got home after midnight. We were both dead tired and I was walking up the stairs thinking “Shit. I probably should have sex with him tonight.” LOL Luckily, by the time I finished washing my face/brushing my teeth he was almost asleep. 

But we had sex the night before we were engaged and I’m sure we’ll have sex tonight so I don’t think it’s that disappointing 😛

Post # 11
841 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

We got engaged, drove back to my apartment (called family members on the way back), packed up my stuff to go visit family for the weekend, then did it and it was overly emotional hahaha.

Post # 12
3276 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

We slept on a couch in a frat house on alumni weekend with my drunk best friend crying in the corner. We got about 2 hours of sleep then drove home the next morning. It was quite terrible. 

Post # 13
2394 posts
Buzzing bee

He proposed at midnight on my birthday in my apartment after a romantic dinner date with flowers, champagne and the whole works, so yes.

It was a great birthday present to have “almost married” sex! And yes I did peek at my ring while we were doing it. LOL


Post # 14
7437 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

We had sex after we went to dinner and told our families. It was great sex too 🙂

Post # 15
3718 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Like 6 hours later, after we both had showered and before we called our parents (we were hiking in the rainforest– showering was not optional!)

Post # 16
1649 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2000

I have no idea whether we did it or not that day.  Not something I really keep track of.  Plus that whole day was a blur of just pure happiness to me. I remember him proposing on the beach during the afternoon, walking around the beach, staring at my hand, coming home, frantically painting my nails because ppl want to see pics of the ring and my hands are gross lol then going out for sushi.  That’s all I remember.  Oh, and we went grocery shopping that day, and on our way out, a homeless man asked us if he can have some milk, then us being like WTF?? haha Those are my proposal day memories!

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