(Closed) After the Ultimatum: Taking Them Back?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I think that before you consider re-entering into a relationship with him, that you two need to sit down and have a serious conversation about the reason that you broke it off to begin with.

If it was lack of proposal, you have to determine whether or not he has changed in that regard.  If not, you will be wasting your time.  You know him best, so you will be able to figure out if he’s ready now.

Good luck to you!

Post # 4
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

The reason you left him is still there, so I guess before you solidify anything you do need to have a frank chat with him about your expectations for your future and make sure you are on the same page. 

That said, trust your instinct. If you feel he has changed for the better, why not? 

Post # 5
3471 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

You need to talk to him about why you left– has that issue(s) changed? Then you’ll have your answer. 

Post # 6
628 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve never been in that situation but Handsome’s best friend and his girl had been dating for seven years when she gave him an ultimatum.  She pushed getting married and he wasn’t budging on it so she left him. His best friend did ok for a while. There were times where he would break down and cry. He dated once during there break. Then after 6 months she realized that there was no else out there more for her then him. They got back together moved in with eachother three months later then two years after they moved in they got married.

They’ve been married for two years now, still going strong.


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