(Closed) After the Wedding

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We already had a place together, so that wasn’t really a concern.

How stressed out are you about the wedding planning?  Have you registered already?  If not, you should probably have some decor discussions first, before picking towel/bedding/kitchen gadget colours.

I would discuss it, but leave it to be something fun to do together after the wedding.  I wouldn’t want to be coordinating the wedding and the redecorating at the same time, but that might just be me 🙂

Post # 4
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4582 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’d save it for after the wedding. A lot of women end up with post-wedding blues and this will give you something to look forward to and occupy your time.

Post # 5
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4439 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@TaurianDoll:  I woudn’t undertake any major projects right before the wedding, I bought a few pieces of furniture before the wedding to spruce it up because i knew a lot of people would be in and out of our home that weekend but anything else I think would be too overwhelming.

Post # 6
Hostess
11166 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

My Darling Husband and I lived together before we got married but we completely redecorated our entire home after the wedding. It was a wonderful experience together and it kept me busy during the post-wedding blues.

I would suggest waiting until after you are home from your honeymoon for a few reasons. For starters you don’t know what kinds of things you might get from your registry and you may even change your mind about everything once you get started (this is what we did…we returned practially everything).  Also, after the wedding and honeymoon a lot of brides find themselves a little blue. Remodeled your new space is a great together activity that will give you something else to focus on during this transition period.

Post # 7
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5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Some of the BIGGEST, knock down, drag out fights I ever had with Mr. 99 were over our house. 

I had purchased and renovated the place to fit my taste, it was a very modern, scandanavian theme, with clean lines, minimalist decor and a very bright palette…had I known that very summer I would meet and fall in love with the man of my dreams who also happened to be a died in the wool, honest to god, aw shucks country boy…well, I might have chosen something different.

But, five years later…the house is what we like to call, Country Fried Modern, and in spite of how awkward it sounds, it actually holds a lot of appeal….we’re putting in a traditional Japanese Ofuro in the basement…so I guess the house reflects us in our essence, which is, all over the place.

Anyway, it’s a fun, for most people, experience to put things in your home that reflect and mirror your journies together, plus, a lot of people really like having a new project to come together on after the wedding.

Post # 9
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6123 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’d say that’ a big endeavor all at once!  Can’t you start with one place, like your bedroom?  We still have a room that is all taped and not painted – it’s been 2 years.

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