(Closed) After wedding UPDATE: NEEDING YOUR PRAYERS!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m so sorry to hear about your Mother and will keep her in my thoughts.

The drama follows you girl I swear.

Post # 4
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1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh my goodness, you are definately in my prayers. I pray God will comfort you and your family and give you strength to get through all of this. You know us bees care about one another and when one asks for prayers, we’re there.

(HUGS) and touch base when you’re up to it.

Post # 6
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1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oooops… I just read the end of your post. I don’t want to offend but I said I’d pray for you but if you prefer me to keep you in my thoughts I will.

Post # 7
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2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Please stay encouraged….there is always a rainbow after every storm!

Post # 9
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1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You got it!!!

Post # 10
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3799 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

keep on truckin’, you will make it through!

Unfriend the nasty girls, don’t open anymore messages from them, turn the phone off/leave it off the hook, take a nap, and then start over. It will seriously be ok.

Post # 11
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I think its awesome that you are more worried about what’s happened to you then your mom, as evidenced by the fact that she is #3 on your list. Some guys aren’t comfortable dealing with that level of emotion. Probably wasn’t right that he left, but I’m sure he didn’t deserve to be reamed out the way he was.

I hope your mom is ok, I’ll be thinking of her

Post # 12
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5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

Yeah I’m thinking you shouldn’t even be considering all of the other stuff going on – the tiff with your bridesmaids is so inconsequential. Even your pictures aren’t that important right now. Your husband should be with you and supporting you -but screaming and yelling at him will get you both nowhere.

You should be focusing your thoughts and energy on your mom and helping her in this very scary time for her.

 

Hoping your mom’s surgery goes well and thinking of her.

Post # 13
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749 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MrsSl82be: I think she was probably going in chronological order, not order of importance. She is having a hard time right now, and doesn’t need the snark.

OP: I’ll be keeping you and your mom in my thoughts ๐Ÿ™‚ Hang in there!

Post # 14
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@missapis: Not being snarky, being real. If this were me, I wouldn’t even care at all about my pictures or my stupid friends, because hello, my mother just had a STROKE and will now need surgery.

Just seems incredible to me. And it is my opinion, and I’m entitled to it. If this were my post, I would fully expect at least 1 person to virtually slap me across the face and tell me to worry about what’s most important – my mother’s health. I would welcome honest answers, and not get upset when people were telling me the truth

Post # 15
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858 posts
Busy bee

I have to agree with MrsSl82be. If something happened to my mother all of other stuff would be the least of my worries. Pictures and fighting bridesmaids are nothing compared to a sick family member

Post # 16
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1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh my gosh, I really hope everything turns out for the best. That’s a whole bunch of crap to be going through all at once, and so soon after the wedding too.

Focus on your mom and your new marriage right now. You have every right to be upset about your pictures and your bridesmaids, but for your own sanity’s sake, push them out of your mind until things with your mom are more stable. If you try to sort everything out at once you are going to go crazy! The pictures and the bridesmaids can wait. Your family can’t, and you need them as much as they need you in such a stressful time.

I’ll be thinking of you girl ๐Ÿ™‚ please keep us updated.

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