(Closed) After you’re married will you wear both rings?

posted 11 years ago in Rings
Post # 32
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Helper bee

My husband would be devastated if I didn’t wear both all the time. I take them off to sleep and shower ONLY. I’m scared of them going down the drain in the shower and I lay on my hands when I sleep. If I don’t take my rings off I get marks on my face, ha!

Post # 33
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I will wear both.  I am probably having them soldered together.  My wedding band wouldn’t look good by itself anyways.

I’m a nursing student so I’ll probably get a plain band for work just because I miss having somethign on my finger.

Post # 34
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

All 3, all the time!

Post # 35
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I will wear both 🙂

Post # 36
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I wear both all the time.  I can see one day just wearing my wedding band, but I love my e-ring, it’s small and not in the way and there’s no reason for me not to wear it.  

Post # 37
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

These rings will never leave my fingers! We chose them thinking about me never wanting to take them off: not getting caught, not scratching Fiance or worse, future babies, being able to continue leading our very active lifestyle without removing the rings. I love them!

Post # 38
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Both, I love my e-ring too much to skip it even though now that we are in “glove season” it can be a pain

Post # 39
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I plan on wearing both, at least for a while, since I haven’t had my e-ring for like 2 weeks, I am fiending to wear it, lol!

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I will wear both since I have a desk job which doesn’t require much manual labor (other than typing). My DH also likes me to amortize the cost of my ering. Nevertheless, I understand why and personally know some people do not wear their ering. Mostly because they’re afriad of their clumsiness, their jobs require them to wear gloves or are pretty manual intensive, etc…, e.g. people who perform surgery cannot wear jewelry so one less jewelry to carry around is always good.

Post # 41
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2021

On most days, I wear my diamond anniversary band on my ring finger. It’s more low profile.  I don’t think my wedding band looks quite right by itself (it matches the band of my e-ring), so even though they’re not soldered together, I only wear them as a set, for evenings out or whenever I feel like being more dressed up.

Post # 42
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Both until I get my “anniversay ring” Fiance promised me in a few years! I won’t ever take that off! E ring isn’t worth too much so I can see myself putting it away in five years for our daughter to have or something.

Post # 43
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I will wear both.

Post # 44
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

So I’ve thought about this pretty hard, since my e-ring is a giant pear sapphire and is really flashy, not to mention strangely shaped, which will make it hard to wear with a wedding ring on the same finger.

I’m going to wear my e-ring most of the time, as I do now.  There will be some circumstances in which it will be inappropriate to wear a big sapphire, especially in my future career as an academic.  I will take it off in those circumstances and wear only my wedding ring.  In circumstances where it’s appropriate, I’ll wear it as a right-hand ring.  I don’t want to buy a curved band to fit with my pear-shaped stone because it will look weird alone, as I know I will want to wear it sometimes.  So it’ll be a pretty diamond wedding ring on the left and e-ring (most of the time) on the right.

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