(Closed) Age Old Question: Big or Aidan?

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Big or Aidan?
    Big : (22 votes)
    28 %
    Aidan : (46 votes)
    59 %
    Someone else (i.e. Aleksandr Petrovsky, etc.) : (3 votes)
    4 %
    Neither : (7 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4887 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Neither.  They both wanted her to be someone she wasn’t.  I’d prefer Big over Aiden but I dont think either one of them is who she was truly meant to be with.

    Post # 5
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    2410 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Aiden, but honestly I think he was way too good for Carrie.

    Post # 6
    Member
    7173 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Team Aiden here!

    I loved Big’s character, but he needed to get a grip and figure himself out YEARS earlier 😉

    Post # 7
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    1934 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Aiden all the way, but I agree, I think he was too good for her.

    Loved Big and his character, but definitely not to date (or marry!)

    Post # 8
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    1111 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @plantains:  I agree!

    I voted Aidan because he is who I’d want to be with out of any of Carrie’s loves – but I don’t think he was well-suited for Carrie.  They were too different, and he wanted more of a traditional commitment (marriage) than she did.  Neither of them should have had to compromise who they were, but they couldn’t be together without doing that.

    Post # 9
    Member
    3000 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Aiden. I always hated Big and never understood why she was with him!

    Post # 10
    Member
    6597 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Big!!!!! Aiden didn’t love her for who she was!!!

    Big did love her for who she was but needed to figure his own crap out first!!!!

    BIG ALL THE WAY!!!!!

    Post # 11
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    28 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Aiden for me but not for Carrie. I don’t think she deserves him. I’ve had a Big in my life so I understand the appeal but real-life Bigs are not the same. They don’t change.

    Post # 12
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    2849 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @Ms Bookworm:  I agree with this. I personally always liked Aidan the best, because he seemed to genuinely love Carrie and want what’s best for her. Big always seemed too self centered for my taste.

    Post # 13
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    1815 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I loved Aidan, although I agree with others…He wasn’t right for her. I hated that she ended up with Big. It was like seeing your girlfriend go back to her shitty boyfriend time and time again.

    Haha, I actually really liked Burger (besides the whole awful post-it break up!).

    Post # 14
    Member
    2522 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    None of them.  Her choice in men were severely lacking in my opinion.  Blech.

    Post # 15
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    1110 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I chose Aidan because I love him, but I agree that Carrie wasn’t good enough for him. Big treated Carrie like shit, but I don’t like her anyways haha.

    Post # 16
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    679 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I’m also a HUUUUGE fan of SATC. I still can get over Mr. Big leaving her at the alter Frown  Between Aidan and Mr. Big, I would’ve chosen the most commited one, Aidan.

    I agree @NancyCP:  real-life Bigs don’t change.

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