MemberI love Sex and the City and I always think I have made up which I would choose…then I watch an episode where one of them is “perfect” and change my mind. So just for fun, if you were in Carrie’s situation who would you choose?
MemberNeither. They both wanted her to be someone she wasn’t. I’d prefer Big over Aiden but I dont think either one of them is who she was truly meant to be with.
Member@KristenGotMarried: I guess I should add a “Neither” option! Thanks.
MemberAiden, but honestly I think he was way too good for Carrie.
MemberTeam Aiden here!
I loved Big’s character, but he needed to get a grip and figure himself out YEARS earlier 😉
MemberAiden all the way, but I agree, I think he was too good for her.
Loved Big and his character, but definitely not to date (or marry!)
Member@plantains: I agree!
I voted Aidan because he is who I’d want to be with out of any of Carrie’s loves – but I don’t think he was well-suited for Carrie. They were too different, and he wanted more of a traditional commitment (marriage) than she did. Neither of them should have had to compromise who they were, but they couldn’t be together without doing that.
MemberAiden. I always hated Big and never understood why she was with him!
MemberBig!!!!! Aiden didn’t love her for who she was!!!
Big did love her for who she was but needed to figure his own crap out first!!!!
BIG ALL THE WAY!!!!!
MemberAiden for me but not for Carrie. I don’t think she deserves him. I’ve had a Big in my life so I understand the appeal but real-life Bigs are not the same. They don’t change.
Member@Ms Bookworm: I agree with this. I personally always liked Aidan the best, because he seemed to genuinely love Carrie and want what’s best for her. Big always seemed too self centered for my taste.
MemberI loved Aidan, although I agree with others…He wasn’t right for her. I hated that she ended up with Big. It was like seeing your girlfriend go back to her shitty boyfriend time and time again.
Haha, I actually really liked Burger (besides the whole awful post-it break up!).
MemberNone of them. Her choice in men were severely lacking in my opinion. Blech.
MemberI chose Aidan because I love him, but I agree that Carrie wasn’t good enough for him. Big treated Carrie like shit, but I don’t like her anyways haha.
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Between Aidan and Mr. Big, I would’ve chosen the most commited one, Aidan.