Age when TTC?

posted 10 months ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

We started trying when I was 26 and he was 30, and got pregnant with our first when I was 27/he was 31.  He already had a kid when he was 20, though.

Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I was 29 and he was 30. We started trying a month after the wedding so couldn’t have started much sooner. I gave birth to our daughter when we were 32. 

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

We were 28 when we started TTC and our daughter was born a week shy of my husbands 30th and a month shy of mine.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I was 26 when we started TTC our daughter. We got pregnant our second monthly actively trying. I’m currently 28, and we will be starting TTC #2 in a couple months. 

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

We are planning to start this coming summer when we are both 30. I’m always getting comments that I’m waiting too long/getting old 🙄 

There’s no one right age to start TTC. My brother and his wife had their first when they were 26. For me, I definitely didn’t want a baby at 26 but they are happy with their decision. I wouldn’t really worry what other people say. It’s not really their business anyway.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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faithtrustpixiedust :  We are currently 16 weeks pregnant, I am 34 and my husband is 41. We ideally both would have liked kids a bit sooner but our lives didn’t turn out like that and we only met 3 years ago. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee

I was 30 the 1st baby and 33 the 2nd baby. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee

Welcome to parenting! Everyone has an opinion and majority of them dont matter at all. Do what you and your husband feel is best for your family 🙂

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Just shy of 31 when we started TTC, a MMC and then several months of trying later and I’ll be 32 when I give birth to my first at the end of this year. 

We were married when I was just shy of 29 but I had just changed jobs and wanted some time to settle in before trying and then we had a big intercontinental move coming up so we held off for that to avoid having to do it with a newborn, otherwise we would have started trying earlier.

I think it’s less about age and more about stage of life. If I had been married, with a stable job/career, and a house at 26 – I would have started TTC then. Instead I was in the first year of my PhD, traveling ~8 months a year for research, and only newly dating my SO. 

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

I’m 31 and my husband is 28. We didn’t want to start trying until we were married, so we started on our honeymooon a few months ago! 

I have been hearing “You’re running out of time” for a few years though! 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

I don’t think you’re too young at all. I started TTC when I was 31, I’m 32 now and pregnant. DH is 40.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I would have liked to start TTC at 26, but my husband and I had an agreement that we wouldn’t seriously talk babies until he was 30 (he wanted to feel established in his career etc). Then had some complications arise, so I guess technically started TTC at the very end of 27/I had my successful IUI on my 28th birthday haha. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

I just started at 29, but I met my husband when I was 26 so it took us a few years to get married and to feel ready for the next step together. I don’t think 26 is too young at all — reproductively it’s a great age! 

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

we are both 29, NTNP, will actively start trying after our 30th birthday which I still think is young!! I go back and forth between broody and feeling too young and I’m 29 lol! Each to their own, I think 26 is a good age if it’s right for you! 

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