(Closed) Age

posted 6 years ago in Beehive
Post # 60
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Busy bee

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NicoleStevens1114:  there’s an inbox feature where you can private message. It’s like an email. Click your photo at the top rightand it will give you a drop menu. Then click inbox. Or you can click my name to bring up my profile and send me a message. 🙂

Post # 62
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Back to your original question… you don’t have to have a maid of honour. You don’t have to follow any specific rule. You don’t have to wear a long dress, if you don’t want to, you don’t have to have a diamond ring, you don’t have to get married in a church. It’s your wedding, you do it however you want to.

Most people on the board seem to be discouraging you from getting engaged. And, while you are very young, you are going to take a few years before you get married. Things may change over that time, or they may not. As you are planning a long engagement, I would suggest that you don’t think too far ahead. Just enjoy this stage of your relationship.

Post # 63
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Busy bee

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NicoleStevens1114:  good things to think about. I really do hope things will work out. I do still think you guys should just enjoy each other as boyfriend and girlfriend while you’re still in high school at least and I really encourage you to wait at least till you’re done with college to get married. 

Continue to think about some “worst case scenario” situations, they will help prepare you for life because it always shakes out differently than we expect it to. Best to be prepared. 

Most of all, please enjoy your teens. Go out without your fiance every once in awhile, get some of your own, separate friends and develop some hobbies that you do yourself. You will need them when you’re married. I have yet to meet one wife who hasn’t needed a best friend to vent to about her husband every once in awhile. And allow yourselves to grow individually as well as together. 

Keep in touch. Feel free to message me if you’d like, if love to know how things are progressing. 🙂

Post # 65
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Buzzing bee

 

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NicoleStevens1114:  Thanks for answering. Well, without getting into all of the other things I’d like to say about a sixteen year old contemplating marriage, I will say this: you aren’t planning to have your wedding for another three years so right now I wouldn’t worry about anything wedding related (like finding an MoH). I’d just focus on school and, well, being sixteen. 

Post # 66
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

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NicoleStevens1114:  I am 16. We will be married when I’m 18. My info is all in my profile. I honestly don’t care if anyone judges me because there will always be people who judge you and people who support you. As far as friends goes, my Fiance and I have friends, but we don’t party. We have both tried things and feel like it isn’t for us. I have a good paying job as a CNA and I am almost finished with school. My Fiance is out of school and makes great money as a roofer. I won’t tell you that you are wrong for feeling how you do at our age because I don’t think you are. But I feel like it will be hard for someone who is older and has had more experiences to see that. If you want to inbox me or add me, you can message me anytime and I’d be happy to talk to you..Good luck and Congratulations! 

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