(Closed) Ah! The crap never ends!!!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@SimplyChic11: Um, if he’s an older brother, that means he’s definitely an adult. That’s ridiculous. He needs to put his foot down and tell her she CANNOT come on Monday. 

My DH’s mother is completely insane, too, and while he is a really gentle soul, sometimes he has to raise his voice and be really firm with her in order for him to get his point across.

Hope this works out. :/

Post # 5
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@SimplyChic11: Whatever. Let him handle it. But if he gets off the phone and tells you they’re coming, tell him to get right back on and tell them they’re not.

They should be especially understanding if it’s for a medical reason. What a b****- lol.

Post # 7
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6351 posts
Bee Keeper

You know I feel your pain 🙁 Driving 8 hours each way to lay some sort of smackdown on you guys sounds crazy.

Post # 8
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

They sound a bit… extreme.  Why can’t they come on the weekend? Maybe Fiance can push them off till then.  I certainly wouldn’t be takin off work for them… they can deal with me after i get off work.  When i’m bitchy and more tired .. yeah:D

I have fibroids too .. i think people think your making a mountain out of a molehill but unless you have them .. seriously they hurt so stfu.

oh and your Fiance sounds sweet and he’s really walking a tightrope and doing a great job

Post # 9
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

my first thought is if they want to be stupid enough to drive 8hrs for a few hours visit and then drive back 8hrs then let them, the more your Fiance puts you and your relationship first the more they will realise they are the ones that will have to inconvenience themselves and not expect him to jump just because they said so.  im hoping they would get bored with the 8hr trips pretty quick

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I agree with eloping.. it’ll be interesting to see the psychoticness play out..

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