Post # 1
Before I met Darling Husband, he had a little thing going on with one of his coworkers. Nothing serious, he was single, she was constantly making offers to him, he took it. At the time, she said it was just physical, but she ended up having feelings for him. He ended it with her when he met me.
So we see this girl from time to time; she’s very cool, fun, attractive (that is, until she speaks cause she swears a lot and to me, it takes away from her beauty, but that’s beside the point).
Darling Husband is away on travel, and tonight, the girl starts chatting with me on Facebook. To this day, she has no clue that I know anything about the two of them. I never brought it up, Darling Husband never told her he told me.
Anyway, to make a long story short, she brought up in the conversation that she had no idea how Darling Husband is, in an intimate way. I mean, it’s one thing to never bring it up, but it’s another thing to LIE! So I messed up with her head a little bit; on purpose making up answers to make her confused whether if I knew or not. She was struggling to answer, the door was open either for her to talk or drop the subject, but she kept coming back with the lie.
I don’t want to confront her, I see no point in that because what’s in the past is in the past! But I’m thinking after tonight, she might suspect that I know something, and I hope she’ll feel ashamed about bringing it up to lie about it!
I just had a blast! Am I just mean?
Post # 3
Just told my husband about it – with the whole detailed conversation… He thought it was hilarious, and agreed that if/when she asks, he’ll let her know that he is hiding no secrets from me.
Post # 4
Why was she trying to bring that stuff up in the first place? That’s just sad, for her. Obviously she still has feelings for him…too bad you’re with him now! And no, I dont think that’s mean.
Post # 5
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Why in the world was she talking to you about that? That’s seems strange!
Post # 6
Nah, I know she doesn’t have feelings for him anymore, it’s been over 3 years and she patched things up with her daughter’s father since and is very happy! So I’m not concerned about that at all.
I don’t know why she brought it up though – I mean, it was in a funny, silly conversation, but she could easily have avoided it!
Anyway, I think it’s sad, because even if I like this girl, I know now that she’s able to go and just lie and it means I can’t trust her.
I still had a blast confusing her last night!
Post # 7
I’d try my best to avoid too much contact with this girl. First of all trust me, liars can be very dangerous.
Secondly what kind of weirdo brings up that sort of talk about someone else’s husband just to lie about it. Strange.
In her defence though, I think that ( since it look like yall are becoming friends) she feels weird about it and want to ease both of yall mind about what happen between them. Maybe thats why she lied.
Thank goodness you have a honest relationship with your husband so she really just made a fool out of herself and not you.