(Closed) Ahh, the Facebook delete.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You aren’t, and in fact we are inviting one of FI’s step-uncles just to not offend his step-dad (who isn’t really his step-dad, but his mom’s boyfriend of like 18 years) and then his ‘favorite’ cousin who is their daughter (but is not the rest of the family’s favorite because she is a lesbian) but we are NOT inviting step-uncle’s son, because we don’t know them (I met him once) and we don’t have any association with them per say. Of course the step-dad’s family (mainly his youngest son’s wife, so FI’s sister-in-law) keeps asking if we are inviting them and I keep saying no. We too only have room for so many and anything above that is not ok with us. Plus we don’t know them and we aren’t inviting any of the other ‘cousins’ or their families–only the cousin Fiance particularly likes. I’m sure something will be said, but I honestly don’t care. I don’t have to deal with step-dad’s family pretty much at all (except FI’s two ‘brothers’) and they are relaxed for the most part. Plus, I’m paying for it, so they can suck it 😉 hehehe. But I am sorry to hear about your situation, and it’s only fair you get 25 and Fiance gets 25 people. Just with us, our wedding party and their SO’s is 30 people! Good gravy 🙂

Post # 6
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3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

 As you barely know her it’s quite ridiculous, I say ignore them and don’t engage in her drama she deleted you from fb I say good riddance just one less of a way she has to get in contact with you to bitch or complain. Focus on your wedding, and don’t give any more time or energy to their bad behavior.

Post # 8
Member
1089 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

We both have big family’s and we decided that we want a small intimate wedding. We are inviting immediate family and best friends. It is like every one is offended because we arn’t inviting the extended family. I am sorry that our extended family’s would put us over 200 people and well that is not happening. Well his side of the family is already upset about not being invited. His one cousin already asked me if they were invited and was quite hurt when I said no. She totally tried to lay a complete guilt trip. Yeah sorry don’t care. I felt bad for about ten mins and then I was like no we made a decision and are sticking to it. 

We have. 60 person guest list including uS and our wedding party. Well I have 5 sisters. Yeah there goes a third of my invites. 

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