- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2010
I promise, i am not looking for anything other than a place to vent.
MY dad is such an a-hole, miserable SOB!!!
I was a daddys girl until i was 9 and he moved and now i never knew how that was possible
I asked him to pay for 1 part of this wedding and that was food. $3800 he agreed… that was 8 months ago and i have seen a dime. he says he will then due to his 40+ years of drug abuse, he forgets, then we fight about it and my bro and him fight about it and he is back to ok ill pay for it. Then forgets. Then ill give you 1000…..
Today its “everyone is telling me im crazy for paying that much when we have such a large family, why cant people bring a dish” ARE YOU EFFING KIDDING ME???
i am SO pissed that I told my mom every thing i thought of him (my mom divorced him years ago-thank God and i know she agrees)
what sucks is that in Nov his doctor gave him 4-6 months to live and i know i am going to sound like a bad person but i think he is stalling on paying for this in hopes that he dies first so he can get out of it. I swear ladies, this is exactly how he thinks.
He says i should not go all out. Im not, i have cut corners on everything due to budget and he sits on thousands of $$$$, he could have paid for this whole wedding, in cash up front instead he is being a effer
I told him that i dont care if he pays for it and i dont even care if he shows up and that i am done with him. He he done nothing but make my life miserable for years just because he is a miserable person. In my heart of hearts ladies, i dont even want him at my wedding. My fiance has been done with him for awhile too, cant understand why i even talk to my dad still.
Im so stressed out, i have been bawling my eyes out all AM. grrrrrrrrrr
Thanks for at least listening and any advise or words will be appreciated, even if you wanna tell me i am a meany for acting this way.