(Closed) AHHHHH!!! effing a-hole, IM DONE! vent

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1260 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I remember your other post about your dad, how frustrating for you!!!!!! People really can’t understand what it would be like to be in your shoes. Sometimes our families disappoint us, and I find most of the heartache comes from just HOPING that this ONE TIME, they will have changed. Sadly, more often than not, they don’t. I hope everything works out for you, I truly do!!!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Awww ((HUGS)) I’m sorry your relationship with him has deteriorated so much. Honestly, I’d count him out completely. At this point you don’t even want him there anyway. Is there anyone else that can help pay for the food you thought he would be covering? It’s sad to say but some people just bring you to your breaking point and it’s unhealthy for you to maintain any sort of relationship with them. He may be family, but family members have the potential to be the most disappointing people in our lives. Again, so sorry this is happening.

Post # 6
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4024 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

*hugs* I am so sorry. Hopefully it all works out and that you feel better being able to vent! 🙂

Post # 8
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80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

He’s missing out on his daughter’s biggest day because he chose to be a loser. Sucks, but its his fault, not yours. Just enjoy your day and focus on positive things like how awesome your FH is going to look in his wedding garb, how great your bouquet is going to be, etc etc. Everything else is irrelevant! 

Good luck and hope that loser gets some much needed help–if not for himself, then for the sake of your relationship with him that he is screwing up!

Post # 9
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1956 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

I’m so sorry, that sounds like an incredibly frustrating, hurtful and heartbreaking situation…Big Bee (((HUGS)))

Post # 10
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510 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

THis just sounds painful. Either he has to 100% commit and show some $$, or he has to completely back off. There’s no in between!

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