(Closed) Aiming for perfection – trying to relax :)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am in a similar situation.  My FHs first wedding was very “tacky” in his words, and it was all stress and no fun.  This time around he wants an elegant formal wedding with someone else doing all the day of details.  There was alot of stress with the last one, and he is actually having a good time helping me with the details.  But I do feel the stress to make it everything he wants and everything that I want and have it all go right (even thought they never go perfectly).

Post # 4
858 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

LOL, I know what you are talking about. During my wedding planning, I only got about half the details actually planned. About 2-3 weeks before the wedding, we were trying to figure out chairs, DJ, how we were going to cook the meat (we had prime rib for 150), where everyone was staying… But after it was all said and done, I was told that we had one of the most beautiful weddings that some of our guests had ever been too. I think someone actually just told us that last week even, 6 months after the fact. You know what you’re doing, and even just wearing a dress, having flowers, attendents, etc, is more than he had the first time around, so I think it will end up perfect as long as you don’t stress. Enjoy it as much as you can (I didn’t, too stressful for me), but I also wouldn’t wait until the last minute to finalize your details so you don’t put any undue stress on yourselves. Good luck, even though I doubt you really need it! 🙂

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