(Closed) Alcohol at weddings.

posted 6 years ago in Food
  • poll: Will you have alcohol at your wedding?
    Full bar. : (136 votes)
    51 %
    Beer and wine only. : (70 votes)
    26 %
    Just a champagne toast. : (7 votes)
    3 %
    Some other combination of alcohol. : (24 votes)
    9 %
    No alcohol. : (29 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
    751 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I’m from a large Irish family, full bar is the only way to go lol.

    Post # 5
    6256 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Alcohol is a big part of the reason why my wedding might be moved. 🙁 

    Prohibition is still alive and well in some parts of the country.

    Post # 6
    3553 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    My SO really doesn’t want to have alcohol at the wedding. He hates being around drunk people and really doesn’t like social drinking much. I’m not very attached to alcohol and there are several alcoholics in my family who I think would appreciate it being dry. We’re also planning on having an afternoon party so hopefully people will be ok without alcohol. Instead we are thinking about having a keg of rootbeer from a local brewery that is famous for its rootbeer.

    Post # 7
    4464 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Everyone I know loves to have a drink, unwind and have a good time. We couldn’t afford a full bar so we did wine, beer and champage. However, there were also bottles that were brought in from outside (allowed by the venue) and all of our good friends got pretty drunk. The true “adults,” aka my parents’ friends, were fine with the classy wine lol.

    Post # 8
    4659 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I originally wanted beer and wine only but when we decided to have The Itty Bitty Tiny Wedding, we realized it wouldn’t be much more (with our venue’s prices) to go full bar and decided heck, why not?

    Post # 9
    751 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I do have Netflix, maybe I’ll watch it. I can understand why the women were upset back then. For a lot of them their lives weren’t that good and I could see them putting the blame on alcohol. When in reality it was just the mindset back then. Outlawing alcohol wasn’t going to make better husbands or fathers but again I understand, sometimes you need to put the anger somewhere.

    Post # 11
    2287 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: Central Park

    We will not be having any alcohol even champagne due to alcoholics in the family. It’s rude to ask an alcoholic to watch others drink. Some people just can’t be around it at all even though they’re sober now.

    Post # 12
    909 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    My family likes to party – we’re having a full open bar for cocktail hour and the reception.

    Post # 13
    3421 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

    Nah, we’s getting trashed…

    Yeah: when having a full bar you always run the risk of people making fools of themselves. We are running that risk…but…I really do not give a hoo. Imma enjoy myself.

    Post # 14
    870 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Neither myself nor my Fiance drink, so we’re not having any alcohol.  Both of us were exposed to alcoholic family members, so neither of us really have any desire to drink.

    Post # 15
    1832 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    We would never have had a dry wedding, doing a top shelf open bar. However we would attend a wedding that was dry, or limited open bar, or cash bar.

    Just from reading your post, offer a cash bar. Let your guest enjoy the way they want too if alcohol isn’t that important to you guys. Make sure you put somewhere in your wedding invitations that its a cash bar.

    Post # 16
    642 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Were having a full pay bar…no one around here has open bars lol 

    I wont be drinking, Fiance wont be drinking. But everyone else will, for the most part.


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