(Closed) “All I’m focused on is marrying you…”

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I agree. Theory: precious. Reality: infuriating.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MamaHusky3: I hear ya, dear! “I like what you like, Babe. You always pick nice things,” is NOT helping, Mr.ND. Ugh, guys!

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

YES.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

LOL yeah that wouldn’t be fun but it could be the opposite.  My Fiance has an oppinion about EVERYTHING!  In our house we have agreed on one piece of wall decor and because of that we only have one piece of art hanging in the living room…that’s after 5 years in this house and 8 years of living together….

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

LOL… Just reading the headline made me say, “awwwwwww!”

Honestly, my husband had absolutely no vision and no interest in most of the decisions, especially on how everything would look. (Music, food and liquor, yes. Theme, colors, table settings, decor, invitations, no  – except to say “looks/sounds great” once I had made the decisions.) I kind of liked it. Cool

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

Aww that reminds me of something that happened between me and SO today. I have a medical condition that will likely result in me having to use a wheelchair in my advanced age. He said to me “When I imagine my future, I imagine me pushing you in a wheelchair into a resturant like cute old people, and I will pull out the chair for you and I will kiss you on the nose” 

I had a serious, “aww” moment. 

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper

Awwwww! & Hahahahaha  My husband didn’t really care.  I don’t think he would care now, either 28 years later!  For some guys, it’s just not their thing-or all that important. 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

“I want whatever you want”.  Yeah it’s annoying.  All I want is ONE decision made (and made well) without me having to make it. 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@MissHobbit: How sweet! You reminded me of “When Harry Met Sally” at the end when all those cute couples are sharing their stories…super awwww ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@helenberrycrunch: Exactly what I was thinking! I think I broke Mr. Hedgie of that “out”.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

My Fiance was like that until I finally broke down one night with the weight of ALL the decision making. I was just so overwhelmed and I thought he was getting off the hook and I cried. He is now making more of an effort to be helpful and have an opinion. He just didn’t realize how much is was bothering me. To be honest, neither did I until that night.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes, my husband was like that during our planning but two things made it especially frustrating at times: he is 43 and I am 37 so you would think the staggeringly definitive opinions he developed over his life would have applied to planning, AND he wanted the wedding, I wanted to elope LOL

However, the wedding was beautiful and he is a wonderful partner ๐Ÿ™‚ Last week he said to me “have I told you lately how much I love my wife?” Major “awwwww” moment for me ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 16
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: March 2012

my guy does not have much opinion for most of the planning. If I talk to him about the options we have, he’ll weigh in, but strongly defer to me regardless. I’m okay with it. ๐Ÿ˜€ 

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