Post # 1
….and then you hear a silent collective “AWWWWWWWW” from an imaginary audience…….
but in reality, instead of being overwhelmed by his romantic charming self, i’m overwhelmed by his inability to form any sort of opinion when i ask for it…..i’m like, yes. I know. Me too with you. But please push that aside for a second and tell which you’d like better because these decisions should be a joint effort not just all made by me!!!
i’m getting frustrated….i KNOW he has some form of vision in his mind on how everything is gonna look, or what he wants and doesnt want….why cant he just spit it out already and give me some feedback….its not just about what i want and/or what i envision, right!?!?!?!
::sigh:: vent over…. lol anyone else finding your planning your wedding all on your own with minimal input from FH??
Post # 3
I agree. Theory: precious. Reality: infuriating.
Post # 4
@MamaHusky3: I hear ya, dear! “I like what you like, Babe. You always pick nice things,” is NOT helping, Mr.ND. Ugh, guys!
Post # 6
LOL yeah that wouldn’t be fun but it could be the opposite. My Fiance has an oppinion about EVERYTHING! In our house we have agreed on one piece of wall decor and because of that we only have one piece of art hanging in the living room…that’s after 5 years in this house and 8 years of living together….
Post # 7
LOL… Just reading the headline made me say, “awwwwwww!”
Honestly, my husband had absolutely no vision and no interest in most of the decisions, especially on how everything would look. (Music, food and liquor, yes. Theme, colors, table settings, decor, invitations, no – except to say “looks/sounds great” once I had made the decisions.) I kind of liked it.
Post # 8
Aww that reminds me of something that happened between me and SO today. I have a medical condition that will likely result in me having to use a wheelchair in my advanced age. He said to me “When I imagine my future, I imagine me pushing you in a wheelchair into a resturant like cute old people, and I will pull out the chair for you and I will kiss you on the nose”
I had a serious, “aww” moment.
Post # 9
Awwwww! & Hahahahaha My husband didn’t really care. I don’t think he would care now, either 28 years later! For some guys, it’s just not their thing-or all that important.
Post # 10
“I want whatever you want”. Yeah it’s annoying. All I want is ONE decision made (and made well) without me having to make it.
Post # 11
@MissHobbit: How sweet! You reminded me of “When Harry Met Sally” at the end when all those cute couples are sharing their stories…super awwww 🙂
Post # 12
@MissHobbit: I kiss Mr. dear on the nose all the time.
Post # 13
@helenberrycrunch: Exactly what I was thinking! I think I broke Mr. Hedgie of that “out”.
Post # 14
My Fiance was like that until I finally broke down one night with the weight of ALL the decision making. I was just so overwhelmed and I thought he was getting off the hook and I cried. He is now making more of an effort to be helpful and have an opinion. He just didn’t realize how much is was bothering me. To be honest, neither did I until that night.
Post # 15
Yes, my husband was like that during our planning but two things made it especially frustrating at times: he is 43 and I am 37 so you would think the staggeringly definitive opinions he developed over his life would have applied to planning, AND he wanted the wedding, I wanted to elope LOL
However, the wedding was beautiful and he is a wonderful partner 🙂 Last week he said to me “have I told you lately how much I love my wife?” Major “awwwww” moment for me 🙂
Post # 16
my guy does not have much opinion for most of the planning. If I talk to him about the options we have, he’ll weigh in, but strongly defer to me regardless. I’m okay with it. 😀