(Closed) All in favor of being annoyed with their moms please say I. I!!!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I don’t think moms ( and parents ) will ever be on the same page with us. I am pretty sure my grandpa still thinks my mom had the virgin births ( after 2 kids and being marred for 38 years).

My mom  is no dummy, but she is of the opinion that so long as i don’t flaunt my sex life in front of her, then as far as she is concerned I am  not doing anything inappropreate.   ( this is the same woman who lost her mind on me for mentioning that I MIGHT not get married Catholic…. ) So i understand the crazyness.

If it makes you feel better, I am “grounded” right now because I left work late and forgot to call….. I’m 21, full time student, full time job, had my own apt for two years, and moved back in because my mom got sick,  and getting married in 2 years…. and i am grounded…. lol

 

 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

You might need to move out. You can’t make her take you seriously, but you can at least control your environment.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Annebanan: OMG I felt like I was the only one going through this. I haven’t tell my parents I’m not having a religious ceremony, I was ‘raised’ catholic but grew out of it and so did Fiance so we don’t see the point of having a ceremony we don’t believe in.

I don’t go telling my parents about my sex life, they don’t want to know and I’m sure they chose to believe I’m still a virgin. It’s not an easy thing for parents to deal with it specially if they don’t approve. I visited my boyfriend (my parents still don’t know we’re engaged) a month ago and my parents forced me to stay at my cousins place cause god forbids we sleep together.

Lol.. squirrel pijama bottoms, I still have 5 teddy bears in my bed, I don’t get grounded anymore but I haven’t done anything that bad lately (that they know of).

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

aw! you are so a child of God! lol! makes me giggle cause that’s KINDA how my mom is. You are SO much nicer than I though. You sound like a great daughter. ( I confess I used to end up cussing my mom out when she tried to pull that stuff on me..yeah great daughter huh?) My only advice is to humor her and eventually gradually pull away with your independence. My cousin is going through the same thing right now and as a result is moving out and 4 hours away.

Anyway just know that a lot of us goes through this and your not alone and it sucks but you are always gonna be your mama’s lil girl, right?

i am still trying to figure this out too, I am 31 and have lived on my own forever but my mom says i;m not old enough to get married. Once, i told her i was going to a club and she told me to take my dad with me! i was like dude I’m 27 and she went “oh!” and started laughing. My point is that they forget we are adults and worry so much that don’t think about how they drive us nuts!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Angelz_love: 31 and you’re too young to get married? seriously? how old was she when she got married?

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

well, so long as they’re not on your hippa sheet they really dont need to know. im on my parents insurance and when there was… lady business…. i just told them the Dr. said so and idk why…

I do a lot of yesmam, nosir and a lot of getting yelled at. lol its ok, 2 years ….:)

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Sex, politcs and religion are three things that should not be talked about at the dinner table… or my family. lol

Post # 16
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2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Go check out my To be or not to be catholic post….
That right there is a novel in psychoisis  in a half….
I wound up just telling my mom I am having a crisis of faith, so she would stop screaming….and that Fiance would do the RCIA classes…
Then I have my Future Mother-In-Law telling me to go to a pentacostal church and get jesus tingles * her words not mine.*

here is the kicker…prents are cool with Fi and i moving in together 6 mo befre the wedding… to test and see if we will kill each other or not… but their not cool with us sleeping in the same room here, Im not allowed to sleep at his house, and if we go away for a trip or something we have ” seperate hotel rooms”…. riiight.

Moving out might be a good option, but you olny have till june… then they cannot be too upset, procreating and the flock and such….

 

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