(Closed) “all men are the same!”

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
14702 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

When I first started dating my FH, I had some really man bashing friends.  I got to the point when I had to sever ties with said friends.  I really couldn’t handle any more. 

Post # 4
Member
455 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

This is my personal pet peeve in life (or 1 of 200).  Everyone is different, everyone is their own person. I’d hate to have someone say “well all girls are whores because my girlfriend cheated on me”.  Excuse me! I’m ME, judge me on my qualities.

Post # 5
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636 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

That is really annoying!  If you join in just to go along with your friends, it is disrespectful to your fiance but if you disagree with everything your friends say it is like adding insult to injury to the friends who aren’t having good luck with men right now.  If it were me, I would let them do their man bashing for a few minutes and then try and change the subject to something more positive.  If it doesn’t work or they call you on it, you might have to limit your time with these ladies.

Post # 6
Member
1675 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Ew. This is something I just can’t stand! I hate the generalizations that some women make and man-bashing drives me insane! It seems so small-minded.

I know we all go through tough times in our relationships, but we obviously chose our partners because we see good in them. I think if women are truly, truly unhappy they should leave. Otherwise, they should put the energy they put into man-bashing into actually making their relationships work.

I think it’s totally okay to vent to your girlfriends about a specific issue you might be having, but to generalize and demonize everything about men drives me absolutely insane!

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