(Closed) All our friends are having babies

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Uh yeah! I want babies so bad, but because of insurace/financial reasons we are going to be putting it off for 2-3 years. I have 4 pregnant friends and know numerous people who have just had babies, they are all over my facebook! It seems like forever away until I get to have my own. 

Post # 4
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1493 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@iheartnerds: I feel you there. We’re not trying until around our second anniversary. There’s tons and tons of people pregnant right now. It’s difficult not to get jealous or envious of them. I can’t wait until we start trying.

Also on facebook, I hide some of the pregnant people because I just can’t take it. Seeing all of the bumps and babies makes the waiting harder on me. It sounds awful, but it gets me through.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I feel the same way. One of my best friends just found out that she’s pregnant with her second, I have a few facebook friends who just announced that they’re pregnant and Fiance and my best friends are TTC. We’re planning on waiting about 2.5 more years and it does feel soooo far away. It feels like it felt waiting to get engaged almost!! The commercials that get me looks from Fiance now are just Gerber or baby commercial pictures instead of jeweler commercials. =/

Post # 6
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2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I feel the same way … and it is even more torturous because I have been off birth control for almost 9 months … and for some reason my body refuses to have any cycles (so sad).

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@iheartnerds: Yep trying … just not effectively, and let me tell you, every new pregnancy announcement, every bump picture, and every newborn picture makes it harder to take that things are taking so long.

Post # 9
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2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I felt exactly like how you’re feeling right now. My dh and I weren’t planning on having children until he graduated and had a few years in the firm, but  neither of us could wait. SO we’ve been ttc for 6 months and still no luck. Every time I hear someone announce their pregnancy I just cry and today was one of those days where I just felt it’s never going to happen for me.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Ms Mini:  ugh same here.  I went off in June of 2010 and have only had one cycle since then and it was brought on by taking Provera.  *le sigh*  I’d like my body to start working so I can get pregnant please!!!

ETA:  I’m working really hard to just be happy for others who are getting pregnant etc, but it’s really hard when you’ve been waiting/trying for so long and can’t even get your body to work right let alone get pregnant!!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Wow! Maybe we need to have a whole new kind of waiting board 😉

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